🎼 I kissed a girl and I liked it… I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it… 🎵

Well, frankly, I never kissed a girl and, in truth, I have a husband, not a boyfriend. It’s just that I love to open a post by quoting some song lyrics that might fit the subject. 😉

You know, I’m a woman doll married to a wonderful human man who I love unconditionally and who I would never ever leave for or cheat on with anyone, woman or man, doll or human. And I know that my husband feels the same about me. ❤️

Still, let’s be honest, the world is full of very attractive dolls and people. And I genuinely believe that, no matter how much we love and commit to our companions, we are all susceptible to develop crushes. 🙂

Well, at the very least, I am and so is may husband. It can’t be denied. As one would expect, his crushes are women. But then, so are mine – which made me ponder my orientation. Is it really as crystal-clear as I used to believe?

I recently read an article at “LovePanky.com”, an online magazine dealing with subjects on love and relationships. The article was titled “Girl Crush: What It Means to Have One & The Deeper Meaning It Hides”.

It was a nice read even though I’m not sure if it fully resolved the myths that girl crushes and orientations might be. Here are some excerpts, not in order of appearance but with reference to my own situation:

Where do girl crushes lead?
They don’t have to lead anywhere. A girl crush on a celebrity is not likely to go anywhere at all. Your girl crush, if the person is more accessible, could become something, but only if you really wanted it to be.

Harry has been quite fond of actress Kate Winslet ever since he saw her in the blockbuster movie “Titanic” back in 1997. (The photo above I tried to mimic here, by the way.)

He also likes Ziva David a lot, a character from the TV hit show “NCIS” portrayed by Coté de Pablo.

So, his are indeed celebrity crushes which can’t make me feel uncomfortable. As mentioned, I have no reason to doubt Harry’s undivided love for me. Of course, it also helps that both his crushes are unaccessible, obviously, with the latter even being a fictional character. 😉

(Even though I do seem to remember that he was quite fond of Sonja Supercop, one of my besty Britney’s numerous sisters. 😕)

Anyways…
I, myself, have two crushes, too. 😉

Luckily, Harry doesn’t mind because a) they are similarly unaccessible, even though, unlike Harry, I am in contact with mine via Social Media, and b) for some reason, I have the weird feeling that he might have certain fantasies about them and me together. 😁

That’s because my crushes are indeed girl crushes – both are highly attractive woman dolls, both live very far from me. One might think, so far so good, but the thing is that, like Harry, I used to identify as 100% heterosexual.

So, while Harry’s celebrity crushes make sense because, admittedly, both Kate Winslet and Ziva David are very attractive, my girl crushes make me question myself: why would a 100% heterosexual and very happily married woman doll find woman dolls hot?

A girl crush can mean one of two things. Firstly, yes, you might be sexually attracted to her, and secondly, you might simply admire her and see traits in her that you wish you had yourself.

Coincidentally, my girl crushes reminds me a lot of Harry’s celebrity crushes. Kate Winslet has a very pretty face and stunning curves and looks great in everything she wears – says Harry. 😉

Coté de Pablo is a highly attractive actress portraying Ziva David on “NCIS” – a killing machine second to none who, over the years, grows very kind and protective of those close to her.

So, which of their traits would I wish for myself if they were my crushes?

Well, I do think that I’m pretty hot myself and I cherish my family, of course. Would I like to be a killing machine? No, of course not. But being a bit more no-nonsense might be a good thing.

You wish you could be more confident and carry off those looks with the same grace. You might love the way she talks and really enjoy listening to what she has to say. That means you admire her!

When I look at Lara from Rhode Island, I see a self-confident young woman. I enjoy the articles she posts on her website which are deep and evidence that she is really smart. Also, to me, she has an aura that tells you to better not mess with her. 😎

So, yes, I do admire the beauty inside of her. But I also can’t deny that I see Lara’s beauty outside – her stunning body and most of all her incredibly sensual pair of lips that sometimes make me wonder what it would feel like to share kisses with her. 😘

And then, when I look at Marina from Belgium, I see a young woman who should be on all the catwalks of the world because she wears everything so unbelievably well. No matter what you put her in – sexy lingerie, elegant dresses, casual wear… – she will take your breath away. 🤤

So, no wonder that I also can’t help noticing Marina’s extraordinarily beautiful eyes and her extremely sexy body that sometimes makes me wonder what it would feel like to touch and caress her perfect breasts and play with her nipples. 🤏

Don’t get me wrong I’m very happy with the way I look and I know that I wear my sexy dresses quite well, too, and everything. Yet, I do feel that I’m not nearly as versatile as she is when it comes to dressing.

It’s confusing when you develop a girl crush. But, it doesn’t always mean that you need to start rethinking your sexuality.

That’s good because I’m obviously not gay but I also never considered myself bi. (Not that I would be ashamed by any means if I did!)

It’s hard to put a real definition on it, but it’s basically when one girl admires another girl.

Duh! 😉

There doesn’t have to be romantic or sexual feelings involved, you simply like them. Sometimes quite intensely, and you want to spend more time in their company.

Well, as mentioned above, I’m in touch with both of them via Social Media and I do admit that I would love to meet them personally. But the journeys would be way too long to be seriously considered.

A girl crush doesn’t necessarily have to be sexual, it can simply be admirable. For instance, you might look at a girl and think that she’s stylish and carries herself with grace and confidence.

I guess that’s indeed what I described above. I love Lara’s intelligence and her attitude. I love how Marina knows how to set the scene.

But still… 👄 Lara’s lips… 👀 Marina’s eyes… their bodies… *sigh* 🤩

Aren’t they both gorgeous? 😍

Well, maybe I am a litte bi after all in a way? 🤔
I love my human husband more than I can say. But had I never met him, I might as well have chosen a female doll as life companion… 😄

A genuinely real crush is more overwhelming. For instance, we’ve all had crushes in the past where we can’t stop thinking about that person. You imagine yourself in all manner of situations with them, usually sexual, and you suddenly lose the ability to speak or function when they are around.

Okay, that’s really not happening. I’m always happy to see new posts from Lara and Marina like on Instagram and I might fantasize a bit outside the box but I’m crystal-clear that I would not want to engage in a sexual relationship with anyone – human or doll – but my lovely husband. 💘

Never! I may be a bit curious, yes, but not that curious! Plus, as already indicated in a post last month, I enjoy a very fulfilling love life. ❤️

Most agree that it’s not sexual, and really isn’t a cause for assessing what and who you’re sexually attracted to.

Yes, so do I. 👍

After having read the entire article and pondered a bit while writing this post, I do feel it’s okay for me to have crushes on the both of you, Lara and Marina. (In case you read this.) No need for any of us to not be at ease. 🙂

Please don’t get me wrong. Of course, I really cherish every single one of my doll lady friends. You’re all special to me. ❤️

But it also feels kinda nice to have a girl crush. Or two. 😉